Figuring This Thing Out
Alright, so people ask about this sometimes. It wasn’t like there was a magic button, you know? Took some time, messing around, really paying attention. It’s not guaranteed every time, that’s the first thing. Everyone’s different.
Getting Started
First off, gotta make sure she’s relaxed. Super relaxed. And turned on. Really turned on. That’s key. Rushing it never worked for me. We’d spend a lot of time just fooling around, general foreplay, making sure the mood was right. Comfortable setting, no pressure, just enjoying things.
The Process I Tried
Okay, so here’s what I found worked sometimes. It’s about finding the right spot. Inside, kinda on the front wall, maybe an inch or two in? Feels a bit different, maybe spongier. People call it the G-spot area, I guess.
- Started gentle, just exploring, seeing what felt good to her. Communication is big here. You gotta watch reactions, listen to sounds she makes.
- Used fingers, usually one or two. Tried different pressures. Sometimes light, sometimes firmer.
- The motion that seemed to work best was a sort of ‘come here’ curl with the fingers. Steady rhythm. Not too fast, not too slow. Had to experiment to find the right pace for her.
- Keeping it up is important. Consistency. It might take a while. You can feel things changing sometimes, like the area swells up a bit.
- Sometimes shifting the angle slightly helped. It’s really about tuning into her body and what she’s responding to.
What Happened Next
When it worked, it wasn’t always a huge flood like you see in videos. Sometimes it was just a noticeable increase in wetness, other times more of a definite release, a clear fluid. It’s different person to person, time to time. The main thing was seeing if she enjoyed the build-up and the sensation. That was the real goal, right? Making sure she felt good.
So yeah, that was my experience trying to figure it out. Lots of trial and error, lots of paying attention. No secret technique, just patience and focus on my partner.
