Okay, so, the other day I decided to give this “oral for her” thing a serious try. I’d heard about it, read about it, you know, the usual. But actually doing it? That’s a whole different ballgame.
First, I prepared. I mean, you can’t just jump in, right? I made sure the environment was good. Cleaned up a bit, dimmed the lights, put on some music she likes – nothing too crazy, just something chill. I even lit a candle, felt a little cheesy, but hey, why not?
Then came the actual, uh, approach. No diving straight in! Started slow, lots of kissing and touching, you know, building things up. Made sure she was relaxed and into it. Communication is key, folks. I kept checking in, making sure she was comfortable, asking what she liked. No mind-reading here.
- Started with gentle kisses, moving down slowly.
- Used my hands a lot, exploring and teasing.
- Paid attention to her reactions – moans, body language, the whole deal.
Next up, the main event. I won’t go into graphic detail, but let’s just say I experimented. Different techniques, different pressures, different, um, rhythms. It’s all about finding what works for her. It’s not about you, it’s about her pleasure. I can not stress this enough!
It took some time, I won’t lie. There was some adjusting, some figuring things out. At one point, I felt a bit lost, not gonna lie. But I kept going, kept paying attention, and kept asking her what felt good. Seriously, just ask! It makes everything so much easier.
The Result?
Well, let’s just say it was worth the effort. Seeing her that happy, that satisfied… it was pretty amazing. And honestly, it was pretty fun for me too. The whole experience, the connection, it was just… wow. Definitely something I’ll be repeating. And hopefully, with a bit more practice, I’ll get even better at it. Practice makes perfect, right?
