So, you’re planning a trip abroad? Nice. Everyone dreams of that perfect getaway. But let me tell you, it’s not always like the postcards. Things can go sideways pretty fast if you’re not careful. I’ve learned a few things over the years, mostly by messing up or seeing others mess up. Here’s what I actually do to try and keep myself out of trouble.

Before You Even Pack Your Bags
This is where the real work starts, not when you’re at the airport. First off, research the heck out of your destination. And I don’t just mean the cool tourist spots. I look up common scams, dodgy areas, local customs that might get you into hot water. Some people think it’s being negative; I think it’s being smart. Knowing what to watch out for is half the battle.
Then, documents. Man, oh man, documents. I once had a scare with my passport – didn’t lose it, but thought I did, and the panic was real. So now, I do this:
- Make digital copies of my passport, visa, flight tickets, hotel bookings, and insurance. I email them to myself and save them offline on my phone.
- Make a couple of physical photocopies. I keep one set in my main luggage and another in my carry-on, separate from the originals.
- Leave another set of copies with someone trustworthy back home. Just in case everything goes totally wrong.
I also tell a couple of key people my itinerary. Not every tiny detail, but generally where I’ll be and when. If I go off-grid unexpectedly, at least someone knows where to start looking or worrying.
And learn a few basic phrases in the local language! Seriously. “Hello,” “Thank you,” “Excuse me,” “How much?” and “Where is the toilet?” can go a long, long way. You don’t need to be fluent, just show a bit of effort. It makes you look less like a clueless tourist ripe for the picking.
When You’re Actually There
Okay, so you’ve arrived. Now the real game begins. My number one rule is: be aware of your surroundings. Sounds simple, right? But so many people walk around with their heads in the clouds, or glued to their phones. Pickpockets love those guys. I try to look like I know where I’m going, even if I’m totally lost. Confidence, even faked, can be a deterrent.

Don’t flash your cash or expensive stuff. I leave the fancy watch at home. I don’t walk around with a huge camera dangling from my neck unless I’m actively using it and being careful. I try to blend in a bit with how I dress, nothing too loud or obviously “touristy.”
Money is a big one. I never carry all my cash or all my cards in one place. I split it up. Some in my wallet, some in a hidden pocket, maybe some back in the hotel safe. If my wallet gets lifted, I’m not completely stuck. And I always let my bank know I’m traveling, so they don’t freeze my cards when I suddenly start buying weird souvenirs in another hemisphere.
When it comes to where you’re staying, check the locks on doors and windows. If it feels sketchy, it probably is. Don’t be afraid to ask for a different room or, if it’s really bad, find somewhere else. Your safety is worth more than being polite.
Food and water – stick to bottled water in places where the tap water isn’t safe. Eat at places that look busy and clean. A bout of food poisoning can wreck your whole trip. I learned that lesson the hard way in a little food stall once. Delicious, but oh, the aftermath.
Getting around: I try to use official taxis or reputable ride-sharing apps. If I’m using public transport, I keep my bag in front of me and stay alert, especially in crowded spots. Research common taxi scams for the area beforehand.

Trust your gut. Seriously. If a situation feels off, or someone is making you uncomfortable, get out of there. You don’t owe anyone an explanation. Your instincts are usually right.
It’s not about being paranoid; it’s about being prepared. A little bit of caution means you can actually relax and enjoy your vacation, instead of dealing with a preventable disaster. Safe travels!