Today, I want to share something a bit more intimate and personal – my experience on how to perform oral sex on a woman. This is based on my own experiences, and I hope it can be helpful to some of you.
Getting Started
First off, I made sure the mood was right. I started with creating a relaxing atmosphere. I dimmed the lights, put on some soft music, and lit a few candles. It’s all about making her feel comfortable and safe. I started by slowly undressing her, taking my time with each piece of clothing, kissing her gently as I went along. This isn’t a race, it’s about enjoying the journey.
The Foreplay
Foreplay is crucial. I spent a good amount of time just kissing and caressing her body. I kissed her neck, her breasts, and her stomach, paying attention to how she reacted. I could feel her body responding, which was a good sign. I used my hands to explore her curves, gently touching and stroking her thighs and inner thighs. The anticipation was building, and it was exciting.
Moving Down
When I felt she was ready, I moved down. I started by kissing her inner thighs, slowly working my way up. I used my tongue lightly at first, teasing her with soft flicks and gentle strokes. I paid close attention to her reactions, listening to her breathing and moans. This helped me understand what she liked. I varied my movements, sometimes using my tongue in circles, other times in up-and-down motions.
Focusing on the Clitoris
The clitoris is key. I used my tongue to stimulate it gently, starting with light pressure and gradually increasing as she responded. I found that a combination of circular motions and light flicking worked wonders. I also used my fingers to provide additional stimulation, gently rubbing her labia and the surrounding area. It was important to be gentle but firm, and to maintain a steady rhythm.
- Listen to Her: I paid close attention to her body language and sounds. Her moans and movements were my guide.
- Vary the Pressure: I changed the pressure and speed based on her reactions. Sometimes she liked it soft and slow, other times a bit more intense.
- Use Your Hands: I didn’t just rely on my tongue. My hands were also busy, providing extra pleasure and support.
- Communicate: I whispered to her, asking if she liked what I was doing, and encouraging her to tell me what felt good. This made the experience even more intimate.
The Climax
As she approached her climax, I could feel her body tensing up. I kept going, maintaining the rhythm and pressure that she enjoyed. Her breathing became heavier, and her moans louder. When she finally climaxed, it was an incredible feeling for both of us. I held her close, continuing to stimulate her gently as she rode out the waves of pleasure.
Aftercare
After she climaxed, I didn’t just stop. I continued to caress her, kissing her and holding her close. This aftercare is just as important as the act itself. It helps to maintain the intimacy and connection. I made sure she was comfortable and relaxed, and we spent some time just cuddling and enjoying each other’s presence.
This is just my personal experience, and every woman is different. The most important thing is to communicate with your partner, pay attention to her reactions, and enjoy the process together. It’s about creating a pleasurable and intimate experience for both of you.
