Alright folks, here’s how it all went down, step by step. Wanted to figure this out safely and actually have a good time together, you know? Sharing because maybe it’ll help someone else avoid fumbling around like I did at first.
Starting Point: Curiosity and Some Embarrassing Googling
Honestly, my wife hinted at the idea after reading something online. Said it sounded kinda intense and wanted to know what it was about. Me? I had zero clue. Felt totally lost. So, I started digging – mostly late at night, feeling a bit awkward. A ton of stuff out there is either sketchy porn or way too clinical. Needed middle ground.
What I Figured Out (The Basics)
- It’s Not What I Thought: Turns out, for a lot of women, it’s just a different kind of release, kinda peeing? Learned quick – keep towels handy or do it in the tub/shower. Makes sense now. Less pressure on both of us.
- Total Relaxation is KEY: This popped up everywhere. If she’s stressing about work or anything else? Forget it. Doesn’t matter how much I try.
- Patience Isn’t Optional, It’s Mandatory: This wasn’t going to be a one-shot deal. Gotta be okay with trying without expecting fireworks.
Our Actual Game Plan (Trial and Error)
Set up a relaxed evening. Bath for her. Wine. Dim lights. Zero expectations. Told her straight up: “Let’s just mess around tonight, explore a bit, no pressure if nothing happens.”
Started just like usual. Lots of kissing, touching. Built things up slowly. Focused hard on the clit, tried that “come here” finger motion inside they talk about – G-spot stuff. Paid attention to her breathing, watched how her body moved. When things felt really hot, I kept my fingers in that same spot but pressed a lot firmer than before.
Key moment: I asked her, point-blank, “What if you just relax everything, like you’re letting go? Don’t hold anything back, like you need to pee? Just let go if it feels right.” I kept that pressure up with my fingers.
She got super tense suddenly, whole body went rigid, then she kinda pushed down hard… and bam. Felt like a warm gush. Honestly freaked me out for a second! Wasn’t just a trickle; it was a proper splash.
Aftermath and Adjustments
Bath towels were lifesavers. Big-time mess otherwise. She looked totally stunned and then started laughing. “Whoa! That felt… really intense. Crazy different.”
Tried again a few times since then. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn’t. Totally depends. We learned:
- Foreplay is Non-Negotiable: Needs way more time than I thought. At least 20-30 minutes before even thinking about targeting anything specific.
- The “Just Go” Feeling is Crucial: She has to consciously let go, like she’s not holding back pee. Takes practice mentally.
- Waterproof Mats are Smarter Than Towels: Upgraded our gear. Much less laundry.
Bottom Line
It’s definitely possible. But it’s not magic. Takes work, patience, communication, and making sure she feels safe and relaxed enough to completely let go. Don’t force anything. Just explore, keep it fun, and laugh about the mess. Happy exploring!
