My Weird Journey Trying This Whole Thing Out
So yeah, curiosity got the better of me after reading stuff online. Wanted to see what this squirting business was about, figured I’d just… try it? Started simple, just exploring solo, you know. Needed to understand my own body better before involving anyone else. Safety first and all that.
First thing I grabbed? Lube. Seriously, don’t even think about starting without it, major game-changer right there. Made everything smoother and way more comfy. Started off super slow, just gentle touching everywhere, no rush at all. Was focusing on how things felt, listening to my body kinda thing.
Then I shifted focus higher up, finding that spot folks call the G-spot. Felt different, kinda spongy behind the pelvic bone? Used my fingers curled up. Started applying pressure, but not too much, kinda like pressing upwards? But wow, didn’t feel like what everyone describes as “earth-shattering” right away. More like… confusing? Had to experiment with pressure and speed a lot. Sometimes pressing harder, sometimes lighter, sometimes faster rubbing, other times slow circles. Hard to find what actually worked.
Here’s the real kicker that I almost gave up on: timing was everything. Felt like I had to build things up slowly with the G-spot thing, then switch to focusing more on the clitoris right at that peak moment. Like getting excited climbing a hill (G-spot stuff), then needing that extra little nudge at the top (clit focus) to push over the edge. Took me several attempts just to figure out this rhythm switch was even a thing my body needed!
And when it finally clicked? Totally unexpected feeling. BIG difference – it wasn’t the explosive thing you see in, well, certain videos. More like a sudden gush of fluid without that massive orgasmic peak I usually chase. Honestly weirded me out the first time it happened. Like, “Whoa, where did that come from?” Felt similar to needing to pee super urgently right when you’re about to climax, but then… release happened differently.
Couple things hammered home for me:
- Relaxing your whole body is super key, especially your legs and belly. Clenching up = nothing happens. At all.
- Gotta keep that bladder kinda full? Not bursting, but definitely not empty. Made a huge difference in getting results vs. just feeling frustrated.
- This isn’t your usual orgasm. Sensation is totally different, more about the release pressure than that big pleasure bang. Felt strange but interesting.
Took me honestly like weeks of trying randomly to even get it to happen once. Lots of “almost there… nope” moments. And even now, it’s not consistent. Sometimes the stars align, most times they absolutely do not. Bodies are incredibly specific and fussy. What clicked for me might feel totally off for someone else. Just sharing my own messy, trial-and-error mess of it!
