Okay, let’s talk about something that’s been on my mind lately: spiritual sex. Now, I know what you’re thinking – “spiritual sex?” Sounds a bit out there, right? But trust me, this journey has been quite the eye-opener. It all started a few months ago when I was feeling, well, a bit disconnected, both from myself and my partner. We were going through the motions, but something was missing. I craved a deeper connection, something more than just the physical act.
So, I started by doing some reading. I stumbled upon some articles and books talking about tantra and the idea of using sex as a way to connect on a soul level. It sounded intriguing, so I decided to give it a shot.
The First Steps
- First, I talked to my partner about it. Surprisingly, they were open to the idea. We agreed to approach it with an open mind and see where it took us.
- Then, we began by creating a more intentional environment. We lit some candles, put on some calming music, and just spent some time holding each other, focusing on our breath.
It felt a bit awkward at first, I’m not gonna lie. We’re used to a more, uh, “get down to business” approach. But we stuck with it. We started incorporating eye-gazing, which felt super intimate and a little vulnerable, to be honest. But in a good way, you know?
Diving Deeper
Over the next few weeks, we explored different techniques. We tried synchronized breathing, where we’d inhale and exhale together, trying to match each other’s rhythm. It sounds simple, but it created this amazing sense of unity. We also started paying more attention to touch, not just in a sexual way, but really feeling each other’s energy, the warmth of our skin, the subtle movements.
- We experimented with different positions that allowed for deeper connection, like facing each other, heart to heart.
- We learned to communicate on a deeper level, not just with words, but with our bodies, our eyes, our energy.
The Results
Now, I’m not saying we’ve reached some enlightened state or anything, but I can honestly say that this has transformed our relationship. Sex is no longer just a physical act; it’s a way to connect on a deeper level, to share our energy, to be truly present with each other.
It’s not always easy. Some days it flows naturally, other days it feels forced. But we keep at it. We keep exploring, keep learning, keep growing together. It’s a journey, and honestly, it’s been one of the most rewarding experiences of my life. We still have a lot to discover, but I’m excited to see where this path takes us. It’s like we’ve opened up a whole new dimension in our relationship, and it’s pretty damn amazing, if I do say so myself.
