Okay, so, the other day I was messing around and stumbled upon this “ruined orgasm” thing. It sounded kinda weird, but hey, I’m always up for trying new stuff. So, I did a little digging, found some tips, and decided to give it a shot.
First, I got myself going like usual. You know, the regular way. Got the vibes right, the mood set, all that jazz. The key here, I read, is to get really, really close to the edge. Like, right on the brink of, well, you know.
Then, the hard part. Instead of letting go, I pulled back. Like, completely stopped everything. Clenched, relaxed, whatever it took to stop the whole process. It was… frustrating, to say the least. My body was screaming “Go! Go! Go!”, but my brain was like “Nope, not yet!” I should also add here that I tired to use some of the kegel exercises tips I read about.
- First I tried to contact the muscles for a count of 3, hold for a count of 3, and then relax.
- Then tried a similar exercise, just with faster counting.
I repeated this a few times. Building up the tension, then slamming on the brakes. It was like an internal tug-of-war, a real test of willpower. I could feel the pressure building, the frustration mounting, but I held on. It’s a battle, let me tell you.
Finally, after what felt like forever,I did this a couple of times,I decided to go for it.I had to get there and it was not an easy task. And… wow. It was intense. Different. Kind of like all that pent-up energy finally exploded. The release was way stronger than usual, a real rush.
Was it worth it?
Honestly, I’m not sure. It was definitely an experience. A weird, frustrating, but ultimately powerful experience. Would I do it all the time? Probably not. But it’s a fun little trick to have up your sleeve, something to spice things up when you’re feeling adventurous.
