Okay, so I’ve been exploring this whole “sacred sex” thing, and let me tell you, it’s been… interesting. I wouldn’t call myself an expert or anything, just someone who’s curious and likes to try new stuff. So, here’s how it went down for me.
It all started with, well, feeling kinda disconnected. Like, sex was fine, good even, but it felt like something was missing. I started reading some things on internet, it’s really hot and make me feel exciting. So I thought, “Why not?”
The Prep Work (It’s More Than You Think)
First thing, I realized this wasn’t just about the act itself. It was about setting the mood, the intention, all that jazz. So, I did some prep work:
- Cleaned up the space. Seriously, made the bed, lit some candles, put on some chill music. Nothing crazy, just made it feel… nice.
- Talked to my partner. This was key. We chatted about what we were hoping to get out of it, what we were comfortable with, and what we weren’t. No pressure, just open communication.
- Did a little meditating. Okay, this sounds a bit woo-woo, but I just sat quietly for a few minutes, focused on my breathing, and tried to clear my head. Just to get present, you know?
The Main Event (Slow and Steady)
Then came the actual… doing it. And the biggest difference? Slowing. Down. Everything.
- Started with just holding each other. No rushing, just feeling the connection. It Sounds simple, but it makes a difference, at least for me.
- Eye gazing, too. sounds intense, but it was actually really nice to be with my partner.
- Focused on breathing together. This actually helped us stay in sync, and it felt… grounding, I guess?
- Paid attention to every touch. Not just the usual spots, but like, really feeling the sensation of skin on skin.
after that
- We didn’t talk much immediately, just stay together for a while.
- I feel more relaxing than before.
Honestly, it felt different. More connected, more intimate, maybe even a little… spiritual? I don’t know if I’d call it “sacred” in a religious way, but it definitely felt special.
I’m still figuring this all out. It’s not like one time and suddenly everything is transformed. But it’s definitely something I want to keep exploring. It’s about bringing more intention and presence to something that can be, well, pretty routine sometimes. And that’s pretty cool.
