OK, let’s talk about sensual massage. I tried this out a while back, and it was, well, quite an experience. I’m not a professional or anything, just a regular guy who likes to try new things, especially when it comes to getting closer with my partner.
First off, I set the mood. I’m talking dimmed lights, some nice candles, and that relaxing music they always play at spas. I even got a decent massage oil – nothing fancy, just something that smelled good and felt smooth. It wasn’t expensive, found at a local store.
Next, getting my partner comfortable was key. I made sure they were lying down on a soft surface, covered up with a sheet, just like you see in the movies. I started by warming up the oil in my hands – rubbing them together like I was trying to start a fire, you know? I think it’s important to ensure your partner is ready, and ask them.
- Started with the back. I poured a bit of oil on their back and started with long, slow strokes. I used my whole hands, not just the fingers, to really cover the area. Up and down, side to side, you get the idea.
- Then I moved to the shoulders. This is where most people hold their tension, so I spent some extra time here. I used my thumbs to make little circles around the shoulder blades and worked my way up to the neck.
- Worked on the arms and legs. Same deal as the back – long, slow strokes, using my whole hands. I paid extra attention to the hands and feet, giving each finger and toe a little squeeze.
- Flipped them over and did the front. I was extra careful around the chest area, keeping things respectful and all. I mostly focused on the arms, hands, and feet again.
The Key Takeaway
The most important thing I learned is that it’s all about connection. It’s not about being a pro, it’s about paying attention to your partner, feeling their body, and responding to their cues. If they tense up, you ease up. If they sigh with pleasure, you keep doing what you’re doing. It is not about how professional you are, it is about enjoying the time with your partner.
Honestly, it was a pretty amazing experience for both of us. It’s a really intimate way to connect with someone, and it leaves you both feeling super relaxed and close. It was a great way to spend time with my partner, we shared a lot during this experience. I’d definitely recommend giving it a try, as long as you keep it respectful and focus on enjoying the moment with your partner. It’s not rocket science, just a genuine effort to make your partner feel good.
